But before we could move we had to face reality....much of our stuff wasn't coming with us. First off, everything upstairs had to find a new home. We gave some of it to our friends and family, sold some on Craig's List, and put the rest in a moving (garage) sale.
Clothes....Jeez....where'd all that stuff come from? I had 55 casual shirts. K asked me how many of them I had worn in the past 6 months? Twenty. That left 35 that went to charity. Same with shoes. Same with lots of old pants/jeans that...ahem...shrunk in the dryer.
I thought the hardest thing for me to part with would be the 500 hardcover volumes I'd collected over the years. K asked me if I ever went back and re-read any of them? Ummm....no. That meant I really had 500 dusty door stops. Some were given to friends and family, some were sold via Craig's List and in the moving sale, and the rest were sacrificed to Half Price Books. I kept a few that were signed by the authors or given to me by friends, but the rest are now being enjoyed by others. Turns out they weren't hard to part with at all. Now I read Kindle books on my tablet.
Fortunately as things turned out we didn't have any heirloom furniture. We had very good quality stuff, but it had no sentimental value. We kept what we needed and no more. Our HUGE dining table w/ 2 leaves, 6 chairs, and a sideboard was replaced by this...
....and it works for us just fine.
My GIANT oak roll top desk was eventually replaced by this much smaller one....
....and my tall oak file cabinet was condensed into this....
....which fits nicely in the closet.
Every nook and cranny is used for storage. The backside of most doors has been put to use....
In the spring, winter coats, hats, gloves, sweaters, etc are put into plastic boxes and stored under the bed and on the top shelf of closets and are replaced by summer shorts and T-shirts that had been put away the previous fall....
The apartment installed one shelf over the washer/dryer, but I added 2 more....
Need a rod to hang up clothes as they come out of the dryer? Improvise....
The Container Store became my best friend!
Unless you have a bunch of heirlooms or are auditioning for a roll on Hoarders, it really isn't that hard to downsize. In fact, it wasn't long before we found that second apartment bedroom turning into a catch-all room, tempting us all over again to collect more stuff we didn't need. The solution....downsize once more.
After three years in our first apartment we moved again into another newer, nicer, but even smaller one bedroom apartment.
We're now down to 850 sq ft and loving it.
The grounds are beautiful with a pool, gym, and 3 courtyards that I don't have to maintain! And if anything needs fixing (very rare) I just fire off an email to maintenance. They even change light bulbs!
Our downsizing adventure has been very worthwhile, the disadvantages being few and far between. "Apartment grade" is a far cry from "custom home", but if you're willing to check your ego at the door, it's a pretty sweet ride.
Another home for us some day? If I could replicate my carefree downsized/renter's lifestyle and still give my bride another (mini) mansion she could call hers, I'd be willing. Never say never. :)
S
Yeah I think people would be surprised by the amount of stuff they can do without if they really have to. Any books on paper that I don't really love I donate to a local library though with the Kindle that isn't many these days. It's a lot better than lugging ten boxes of books--those mothers are HEAVY!
ReplyDeleteI purged a TON of books the last time we moved, but I think I'll go through & get rid of a bunch more. But not my Dick Francis books - they're too special to me :)
ReplyDeleteOf course, since I'm married to a historian, my books aren't really the issue - ha!
I am a post behind but did want to add my bit to the story of us.
ReplyDeleteWhen I first saw the "mansion" I was impressed. It was a beautiful home - far nicer than anything I had ever stepped foot in much less lived in. I recall being amazed at a closet big enough for a chair! (a very small plastic chair used to put shoes on - but still it was IN the closet).
That home has a very special place in my heart and memory. Those were the rooms where I fell even more madly in love with Scott. I recovered and conquered cancer in those rooms.
When Scott told me he thought we should sell it, knew we should sell it.....I didn't like it, didn't want to talk about it....but he knew more about what was about to happen to the whole country as far as the economy was concerned. If we had stayed it would have bankrupted us for sure.
I don't think about the house too much anymore - it's not our place anymore. Home is where Scott is.
But I'm not going to lie - I have a dream - a very custom-made built by Scott dream....
Kelly
You were a step ahead of me and you have slightly less space than I do. It feels very freeing. I don't even own any cookbooks anymore. Gave them all away. I google for recipes now and mix and match. The books were painful but I haven't missed them yet. So far so good!
ReplyDeleteI remember what a friend of mine once said (before Kindles and Nooks and ebooks became popular):
ReplyDeleteBooks? I have tons of books. I store them in the library in town.